Attend the meeting in the List Hall <- Uh, Oh

[Myself03 <myself03@xxxxxxxxxx>]

Hey,


> I, for
> one, had allot of great moments watching this most recent episode. I've
> gotten my roommate, brother, and friend all hooked on BtVS.

Really? I make a group thing out of it too....One by one i got my friends to watch the
show and now it's kind of a ritual....Of course, if you ask we will say that we're
doing it so we can study english, but i don't think anyone buys it ....except for my
aunt , she already asked for tapes and scripts....Well, it can work, i learned with
Friends...Of course, i don't know shit about the grammar rules, but i can hear , read
and think pretty well and i'm doing okay on the speaking part....And they say that tv
isn't good for you....But them, i'm talking about someone that saw the entire Bush/Gore
debate just to show his friend that he was interested in politics....it was the wrong
country, but at least i had something to talk about on wednesday...But it was cool , it
would have been better if they had come to blows....but still...


> the four of us
> sit in rapt attention each and every tuesday. this past episode would have
> been an interesting time to have a video camera in the apartment. with quick
> glances around the room, i could see everyone's faces at different times
> during the show. the most hilarious was during a particular dream scene (im
> trying to avoid being a spoiler) but the situation im referring to was just
> too much fun. we all gasped at the same moment, we moaned at the same time
> and burst into laughter. it was just one of those moments...

I only have seem the two first parts of this last episode, but i knew about that from
previous spoilers...It has everything to be hilarious situation, as long as thery keep
it a one-side only thing....

> I dont really think i have a point in this typing, i would just like to
> show that, i, for one, would like to keep my membership here and will do
> what it takes to remain in good standings. i am always having opinions, i
> just usually keep them to myself, and beside, who can pass up a free box
> o'Jungle Juice?

Humm, you know, i heard a rumor that to stay on good standings on these lists you
have to post at least one new fic or chapter every two days , even if you've never
written before...It seems like if you don't some people will start going going after
you , haunting your dreams, stalking you during the day, trashing your room and doing
stuff like that ....................WHAT ? I had to try.....So, how long have you being
around anyway ...? ; )

>
> and i do have to be honest and say that i actually did think this was
> primarily a FanFic group, but upon further contemplation, i see that this
> has the potential to be an ultimate forum for the exchanging and discussing
> of ideas... damn, 367?

367 on the Buffy loves Willow one, we have quite a few more on the Buffy wants
Willow....As for the forum thing....that's the idea ....anything Willow...Buffy or
Willow/Buffy goes...And maybe a few other things....

>
> are there really 367 people on this list? we should take a roll call to
> confirm, i mean, if they say two heads are better than one, think of what we
> can do with 367 of them.

You really think that the lurkers will attend ? They're worst than the tourists...


> ok, my opinion on this is that Willow is not in love with Tara (apologies
> to the W/T fans). it could just be the writing, but the way she acts when
> they are together, does not seem much like a relationship to me. at least
> not one i would want to be in. they dont hold hands much, they barely
> snuggle, they dont giggle at each other for no reason, or stare at each
> other across the room... i mean, when they were walking through the school
> and Tara mentioned a flashlight, they weren't even holding hands, then
> Willow commented that she didn't need a flashlight "like some duffus". I may
> be reading all her all wrong, but it just seems to me that Willow does have
> love in her for someone. it is there, and she knows it. you can tell its
> there, i just think she doesnt know who to show it to yet

You know, i KINDA agree with you in that one, but not all the way... Understand that
i'm a die hard Buffy/Willow fan, the kind that will trow a big party when/if Tara and
Riley are out of the show....Not because i don't like then , cause so far i'm liking
everybody on the show , but because they get in the way...I have no reason to defend
the T/W relationship, i can even point out a thousand different reasons why it won't
work out( hehe, i can do that to every relationship, along with reasons why B/W is
better) , but i do think that there's love there, i don't think it is the "love" kind,
but the one that gets you through some stuff..Tara came into Willow's life in a moment
when everything was pretty messed up, Willow was unstable and the people she needed the
most weren't there for her as they should be...Then came Tara , and everything
changed....She gave her support, a shoulder to cry on, attention and a lot of other
things that her friends were too busy to give ....She felt needed and loved once again
and on top of that there was the magic thing....Willow wanted to be loved again, and
Tara gave her that...was it because they were meant to be? I don't think so, it was
about Tara being there at the right moment...You see how i'm avoiding the rebound
word...well, not anymore, but still..., that's what i think it is....It may be love ,
it may be cute , but , TO ME , it doesn't seem like the kind that will last long, but
more like the kind that will end up in a very strong friendship...I know that many
people will think that i'm being judgemental and that i'm cheapening the relationship,
but that's not true, not true at all...I admit that i really didn't like it at first,
but now i think it was necessary...You don't love just one person during your life, you
go through life looking for love and knowing that the real one only will come with THAT
person once, if it comes...I'm a firm believer that the important thing is not where
you want to get, but how you get there...When you're in a relationship you open
yourself, you show who you are, that part of you that many people don't get to see,
that person will change your life just like you've changed hers/his...But it will come
a day when the changes will stop, that person already claimed that part of your heart
that was theirs but still that wasn't that great part, the person wasn't the
one....That's when the relationship comes to an end...You still love, you still care,
but now in a different way...not worst , not better....just different....And that's how
your life will go on, at least till you find the one that is meant for you....Well,
that's how i see things anyway ( who thinks i talk too much please raise your hand....)
That's the kind i think that Tara is for Willow...not THE ONE, but one of the others
that will help her get there, that'll remind her that love is worth all the pain that
comes with it...

As for snuggles and such....I don't think WB approves anything a little more
daring...but it's there , at least in recent episodes, like the hug from behind and the
hand scenes....But still...i have to say that it sometimes seems kind of weird seing
them acting couple-like...I don't know if the problem is the acting, the script or my
head , but Tara and Will don't give up much couple vibes.... Xander/Anya,
Riley/Buffy(weird, i know) and even Cordy/Angel( not really together , but still..)
are doing better in that department than they....Just so you have an idea, i was never
a Willow/Oz fan, but still, during New moon rising i was all teary during their scenes
and during the Willow/Tara ones i was pretty much unaffected.....

>
>
> oh, and here is a spoiler
>
> how about spike almost getting his chip out??? wow was that exciting! i was
> on the edge of my seat drowning in incredulousness... i didn't think it
> would actually happen, but damn if it wasn't close. i was kinda surprised
> Harmony didn't see the doc reach into his pocket for the penny, hey, this is
> Harmony we're talking about...
> and i will have to say that the part when Buffy said to Spike, "i want you"
> made me deathly afraid. I was having flashbacks of Fics about them together.
> i like spike and all, but damn if my skin didn't crawl... i think i really
> believed it was happening, until Spike awoke. You could hear the collective
> sigh of relief in our house...

As i said, it may be a funny thing, see Spike after the slayer....There was something
there ....But I really don't think it will go both ways (well, i'm hoping it won't)
....Buffy seems to really hate his guts....plus the vampire thing ...again....Still ,
it may be fun to see Spike "dealing " with this....I would have like it better if he
went for Willow...but still...Other han tht....I LOVE DAWN AND HARMONY ....Sorry , just
had to get this out....

>
> and how the hell are we gonna get rid of Riley after that little speech
> Buffy made to him

Haven't seem this part yet and i'm already dreading it....As for how to get rid of
him....Trust THE MAN , he'll find a way...

> . maybe we can all throw our weight behind Graham, make him
> more convincing so Riley will follow him. i know there have been allot of
> rumors about him leaving in the middle of the season,

I'm still a bit unsure , but the way i see it they'rew already gathering reasons and
from what i've seem so far i this episode and the season it's not far ahead...Until
then i'll just try to get used to the guy....Besides...it seems that he already is
trying out for the movies....so just keep the faith... : )

> but i dont listen to
> rumors and i NEVER watch previews. i never know what the next show is going
> to be until its actually on. my friends all hate that i mute the tv when
> previews come on, but hey, i like to be surprised...

And people say i'm the crazy one....Tsc, tsc

> Tchau

wow, bi talk too much