Re: Re: Something I've noticed.

["myself03" <myself03@xxxxxxxxxx>]

Humm...Just a few basic things...
----- Original Message ----- 
From: maría virginia 
To: buffywantswillow@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx 
Sent: Friday, June 27, 2003 11:49 AM
Subject: Re: Something I've noticed.



Well my message was cut out!!! 


>>I saw your original message and if you don't mind me saying , i think dan did you a favor...MAybe it wasn't your intention, but you came off as a bit offensive...

and i said that people who haven't 
experienced or KNOW about this kind of sex, just don't write cause 
sometimes it's not real and offensive. 

>>> I gave my opinion on this matter on another post, but i'll toss in a few extra comments....Most of the people who write sex scenes have had contact with it in some way, or at least i assume they have...Book, fics, movies, porn...ANd even men know a thing or two about the female anatomy and sexual behavior....So , in theory they kind of know somethings at least the basic....Does that mean they know enough to write about it ? No... Just as someone who experienced can't necesserilly write about it either....Maybe it's just me, but descriptions of the female genitals and the consequences ofcontinuos stimulations on certains areas can be done by anyone who went tohigh school....WHat will make it good or bed is the other part...The way the author will handle things, the words he/she will use, how the characterswill react...That makes the difference....Not experience, but how comfortable you are with the story...And i'm a firm believer that the more you do it , the more comfortable you get, so....


Well, that was it....