Well, I'll be honest. I love reading Buffy/Willow pairing- I don't have a problem with it... but if the story focuses on them as couple, and Willow HASN'T been with Tara, then I don't have a problem reading it. It just gives me the wiggins if I read one where Willow breaks up with Tara, to be with Buffy though. That's just my preference. But... yes. It does feel weird at times.
Jen
========== Snippet from, "Unexpected Consequences," by Lisa Countryman
"Mmm, Tara?" Willow smacked her lips.
"Hey, there." Buffy rested her hand on Willow’s shoulder.
"Mmm, you wore me out again, baby." Willow smiled without opening her eyes and pulled Buffy’s hand over her breast. "Talented Tongued Tara." Willow snickered.
"You know," Anya said wistfully. "Sometimes, I think I picked the wrong Scooby."
Buffy gave Anya a deadly glare as she yanked her hand off Willow’s breast.