At 2:24 PM +0000 3/1/02, faith_summerz wrote:
Hello, just wanted to say I am leaving this list (after two great years) Because of the incredibly rude way this person has treated me. I was a hugefan of this comic, I've been telling everyone about it and it's been on my e-mail tag forever. I was going to start up a fan site about it and the creators. I got a bit mad when they started with the whole Tara-trashing, even though I am a B/W shipper my fave character happens to be Tara. I think if it was any other character people still would have complained! And basically what I got back was an incredibly offensive reply. She is obviously too ignorant to care about what her fans care about, which is too bad for her I guess. So I guess that's where it stands for "fans" of the show, I guess I'll be flamed (or considered a flamer) just cuz I like Tara and this is a Willow/Buffy list. So I'm not gonna be a part of it. Ciao.
Not to keep a bad line of email going, but I don't see what this has to do with the list. Most of the people on the list here also belong to Kitten Board, and other Buffy/Willow, Willow/Tara, Faith/Buffy, and other miscellaneous pairing lists. I know cause I see 60% of the same people posting from list to list.
So I guess I just don't see why you would punish yourself by removing yourself from the community, just because someone didn't give you the response you wanted.
I've seen these things happen on the Xena lists as well, and I've always just been amazed by the attitude. I'm definitely more understanding people leaving lists that have tons of flames, etc. But this list is very nice. There have been very few flames, and most people treat each other very nicely.
So why deny yourself the list, and deny the list your presence for something that didn't even happen on list, and was essentially private affair?
Just a question, no one really has to answer, just more of a mental pondering, unless someone really has a good answer.
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