Re: OT: SPOILERS FOR UPCOMING EPISODES

["Jolie <slyfox_kitkat@xxxxxxxxx>" <slyfox_kitkat@xxxxxxxxx>]

--- In buffywantswillow@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx, "Cynthia Winters" 
<cnwinters@h...> wrote:
> >From: "Jolie <slyfox_kitkat@y...>" <slyfox_kitkat@y...>
> >Reply-To: buffywantswillow@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
> >To: buffywantswillow@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
> >Subject: ~Buffy*Wants*Willow~ Re: OT: SPOILERS FOR UPCOMING 
EPISODES
> >Date: Sat, 11 Jan 2003 18:02:17 -0000
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> >--- In buffywantswillow@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx, "Diana33" <diana33@e...>
> >wrote:
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> > > ----- Original Message -----
> > > From: Jolie <slyfox_kitkat@y...>
> > > To: buffywantswillow@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
> > > Sent: Saturday, January 11, 2003 12:22 PM
> > > Subject: ~Buffy*Wants*Willow~ SPOILERS FOR UPCOMING EPISODES
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> > > I'm not a W/T shipper either but I can't stand the idea that
> >Willow's soulmate was killed a few months ago and she's hooking up
> >with Kennedy now. IMHO that is not in character for Willow.
> > >
> > > I don't mind Spike.
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> >Ok, I like bad ass spike, before he became pussy whipped, but that
> >is just me. But I am feeling you on the last part totally
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> Okay I gotta jump in here<G>. I'm probably in the minority and 
nobody will 
> back me up but consider this: Tara was gone for six months before 
she 
> returned for two days and decided she wanted to try again. Willow 
didn't 
> when or even IF she and Tara would get back together! Now, 
according to the 
> Buffy time zone<G> that was 8 months ago, nearly a year by the time 
any 
> serious Will/Ken eps will air.
> 
> Yeah Willow lost it when Tara died. She tried to destory the world 
but as 
> I've pointed out in other posts to other lists the girl's got anger 
issues 
> folks. I think her apcolyptic breakdown had less to do with Tara 
than it did 
> a lifetime of pain.
> 
> It's nothing new. She's got parents that don't even know she's 
alive. She 
> had a long standing attraction to a guy that never saw her as a 
woman. She's 
> had a relationship with a guy who shacks up with the first 'other 
woman' he 
> gets the hots for. And then when she finds herself clinging to 
something 
> that might make her noticible (magic) her 'devoted' girlfriend 
leaves 
> instead of helping her face her addiction. Add to that her best 
friend she 
> brought back from the dead who can't feel anything unless she's 
with a 
> psychopath. My point? Everyone who's ever come into Willow's life 
has left 
> her.
> 
> She's anger. She's hurt. And if she can find a woman who says 'Here 
I am. 
> I'm in it for the long haul and you're not gonna push me away' then 
I say 
> Will should go for it. The poor woman's mourned enough already. I 
think 
> she's moved past being sad and is working her way into loneliness. 
It's 
> pretty pathetic when you think about it. A house full of people yet 
she's 
> totally alone. If Kennedy proves worthy, which I think she will if 
> 'Showtime' is any indication, then Willow has 'this fans' blessing 
to move 
> beyond her time with Tara and find someone to love or more 
importantly, 
> someone who won't abandon her like everyone else has.
> 
> Just had to add my two cents<G>
> 
> CN

Me personally, if I loved someone as deeply as Willow and Tara loved 
each other, it would take me a long time, to be with someone 
romantically again. Yes, they weren't together for a long time since 
they broke up, but that didn't mean that love wasn't there, neither 
moved on, did they? No, Tara and WIllow did get back together.

Kennedy is a great girl, I like the character, BUT I don't think she 
is Willow worthy. And from what I've read, they go into the 
relationship fairly quickly, which again is like a slap in the face 
with the beginnings of the Willow and Tara relationship, because they 
just told us, and we finally got to see the two kiss in the Body for 
the first time. Hell we saw too much X/A kissage and B/R and so on, 
but they didn't show ANY kissage or such until the sixteenth episode 
of the season and that was it.

I am a major Buffy/Willow shipper supporter, I love Tara's character, 
despite her being dead, and you know what, they wanted her to play 
evil, and now I am glad that Amber didn't come back, because that 
would just feel like it was degrading the character of Willow and 
throwing salt into an already healing, but still open wound. We all 
saw how Willow reacted when the first took Cassie's form and made 
Willow believe that Tara was there, and we saw how much love she 
still has for Willow and how much she still misses her.

I just really wanted them to hook Willow and Buffy up together, 
becuase those two do have a good chemistry, but they hardly utilize 
them any more and it sucks. When it started out Buffy sought out 
Willow and now it looks like the writesr want Buffy to care less 
about the girl she sought out, and wanted as a friend. Now its just 
sucking between them.

That is what I feel. CN you did make some great points, and I am not 
trying to belittle your opinion in any way.

Jolie