Re: Digest Number 1669

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> Date: Fri, 27 Jun 2003 04:28:22 -0000
> From: maría virginia <virginia2k_15@xxxxxxxxx>
> Subject: Something I've noticed.
> 
> {Moderator note:
> The beginning of this post was a complaint that
> people who have not experienced girl-girl sex
> shouldn't write NC-17, because [in the poster's
> opinion] they can't write it convincingly. I've
> edited because the tone seemed a tad harsh, IMO. 
> 
> I also edited the subject line. The use of all-caps
> is "yelling" and not necessary here.
> 
> Anyway, here's the rest of the post. ?Dan)
> 
> ..please don't write about it cause it's not real
> and sometimes it's i don't know so out of the point
> you know?!...so...im new here, and i love fanfics,
> so is this group, im a huge fan of willow/buffy 
> thing and im a truly believer that they had hidden
> feelings for each other even on the real show, you
> know...just look at their lines, and what about the
> looks? and the i kind of love you 
> think?...mmmm...buffy is heterosexual ok! but willow
> is her secret desire! and it'll be forever!...just
> don't write if you don't know please!...and don't
> get mad im just trying to make a point...and sorry
> my mistakes but im from venezuela and we speak
> spanish! :D!...love you! bye! hope this can start a
> discussion! :D

as a male who has written a lot of f/f erotica i agree
and disagree with you. i agree that many stories
written by non lesbians just don't quite get it right.
the descriptions are all wrong, or even worse they are
some sort of ridiculous male fantasy of what being a
lesbian is. personally, when i write very steamy FF
scenes i try to have a friend go over it to make sure
it sounds ok. i wrote FF because its what i feel
comfy with. i feel better writing about females, even
though i am not one....it feels right and
easier...does that make sense?? and especially with
buffy, i find as i start my first ever fanfic series i
have not a lot of use for most of the M charactors on
the show, at least from an erotic standpoint. its
partially because i don't like them, and its partially
because i don't feel passionate about them. i do feel
passionate about willow, buffy, kennedy, violet, dawn,
olivia, anya etc...and not just in a sexual way, in
general....does that make sense???



bw

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