Re: when did it all begin?

[Mike Cronin <wizathogwarts@xxxxxxxxx>]

What we all enjoy about the ships that appeal to us have little or nothing to do with how open minded each of us are.  They have to do with what appeals to our own personal experiences.  What satisfies our own desires. 

 

I personally can't see Buffy with a significantly older person, let alone an older man.  This includes Angel, Spike and Giles.  What appeals to me personally is Buffy with a female, especially Willow.  This is a personal preference, and our personal preferences make all of us close minded to some extent.

 

Buffy/Giles appeals to you for your own personal reasons.  The only sad thing is that any of us feel compelled to defend these preferences.  This does not rule out friendly debate.

What I pointed out regarding the quotes was my own personal take on the relationship and it's just that, my opinion.

 

Debates should be fun and enlightening, but should never be intended or taken personally.  And if something is intended personally we should each be secure enough in our opinions to see it as the defensive action of someone who is not secure in theirs.

 

These thougths are just an observation formulated from my own experiences and should hold no more weight than any others.

 

I've enjoyed this discussion because it has provided me more insight into the personalities of the others on this board. 

 

-mike

Rainne <chanceofrainne@xxxxxxx> wrote:

I maintain that Quentin Travers was a pillock.  How would he know what kind of love Giles had for Buffy after seeing them together ONCE?  The Watcher/Slayer relationship is FAR too complex to label in such a way after such a short observation.  If you look at only one episode of Buffy, you might get the impression that they have a filial relationship.  Or you might get the impression that they are secret lovers.  It all depends on which episode you look at.  And how open your mind is.

 

My quote "whenever Giles sends me on a mission..." was not meant to illustrate a parental/lover relationship.  Buffy was being a smartass.  It was meant to emphasize that he's not so much of an authority over her so much as he is an older, wiser and respected friend.

 

I think I'm done with this topic.  You're not going to convince me that I'm wrong, and I don't care if I convince you whether I'm right.  I don't *need* to be right.  I have B/G and Giles-centric lists where they actually appreciate diversity and different pairings.

 

~~Rainne

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----- Original Message -----

From: Mike Cronin

To: buffywantswillow@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Sent: Wednesday, August 25, 2004 7:28 AM

Subject: Re: ~Buffy*Wants*Willow~ when did it all begin?

Rainne,

 

Your quoute at the end of your messages;

"Whenever Giles sends me on a mission, he always says 'please,' and afterward I get a cookie."

Sounds like something a father would do for their daughter.

From Helpless;

Quentin:  Your affection for your charge has rendered you incapable of
clear and impartial judgment. (Buffy looks at Giles) You have a father's
love for the child, and that is useless to the cause. (Giles looks down)
It would be best if you had no further contact with the Slayer.

Buffy breaks her stare, and considers Quentin's words.

Willow: "It's a good fight, Buffy, and I want in."
Buffy:  "I kinda love you."
                      —'Choices'

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